Can I just say how kind everyone has been?!? "Unfailingly" is the word that comes to mind. Family and friends. My community. They have helped me keep the important things going even when other things fell away.
Steph recently noted that I don't seem to be out walking much, and that is so true! I rarely seem to venture out unless it is with someone. That's a far cry from most times in my life and I hope I'll go back to craving my own company.
But also the kindness of everyone who stops by! I think often of Jenny's calendar of grief. And I've saved so many comments of comfort and reassurance in an email file that I open up to reread often. I read Jeanie's when I don't have faith in myself because she seems to and seems to know so much that I don't. So it was a treat to get to spend teatime with her.
Pic: The fabulous Jeanie with Max and Huckie!
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This post makes me feel all warm. I love that kindness is surrounding you and enveloping you. Like a giant cardigan. Wait, why did I just think that? Well, now I have this image of the world wrapping you up in a giant cardigan of love. NOT DELETING THIS WEIRD COMMENT, JUST WRAPPING YOU IN MY CARDIGAN
I'm glad you are finding comfort in your friends.
Believe me, the pleasure was ALL mine. What could be better than spending tea time with you in your beautiful home (that makes me smile big! Or "bigly" as I believe the term is!), tea, gorgeous treats and two dogs that are the best! No, the best was our conversation! First of many to come, I think. And I believe your sister is right -- a good conversation on your birthday. And yes, I have faith in you. And I know I'm not the only one!
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So lovely - the kindness, and your warm and colourful home and your adorable dogs and adorable friend. I haven't been walking as much either, and yesterday I went out and remembered why I like it so much.
I’m glad that you are getting so much kindness and support. Karma in the best way. I am reminded of my stepmom, who has for many decades been a wonderful friend. When friends had happy news, she celebrated with them. When they were sick, she tended to them. When they were in grief, she mourned with them and held them up. When my dad died, all of these people were able to envelop her in that same kindness and support. You are such a kind, loving, giving person. I’m glad that you are receiving a bit of that back right now when you need it so much. <3
I am very chuffed over the fact that I introduced you and Jeanie. She is such a gem! I am glad you are feeling wrapped in love. I like your sister’s suggestions of having a convo with your mom on your birthday!!
What J said is absolutely true and perfectly perfect. XO
2/26/26 is my father's birthday; he would have been 100. Do I miss him? Yes. I think of him every single day. Now, however, when I think of him, the grief is gone. I celebrate his life and the things he taught me, the times we had, and the memories he gave my children. You will do that, too, one day, in time.
You get back what you put into the world, my dear friend. It is our honour to be here for you as we know you are here for us.
I'm glad Jeanie got to be there IRL with you. XO
jeanie sent me over. as i read your words it seems you may be going through a difficult time. if so...be gentle and kind to yourself, as you would be to anyone else. be your own best friend!! your home is so colorful and lovely!!
I like cardigans! Mr. Rogers wore them, and that's good enough for me!
Grateful!
First of many... <3 What a treat! Forever grateful to Lisa for this intro :)
Thanks!
Allison--that is so, so true. I've never come back from a walk sorry I went... ever.
Thank you, sweet J. (It's a helpful reminder that it's ok to take at this time and that in time it will be my turn to give again... <3)
Lisa, thank you SO MUCH for mediating that!! You have amazing people energy!
Happy centennial birthday to you wonderful dad, Nance <3
I do believe I will get to that point too... in time...
How will I ever repay so much kindness though unless it's a pay-it forward type of thing?!
Thank you, Debbie! And that is such great advice too :)!
I've never met Jeanie, but we have done Facetime. Rick stayed with us for a couple of days here in Canada. What a great photo of Jeanie!
Coming over from Jeanie’s blog. Your home is so lovely and inviting. Love your sweet fur babies, Max and Huckie. It is always good to spend time with a friend. Hoping you are feeling better.
You have so much going on in your immediate circle and life is hard sometimes. I am glad you are surrounded by kindness since you radiate it so much yourself when others are in need.
Jeanie is very lovely, and I'm afraid my photo doesn't even begin to capture that...
How kind, Linda! Thank you so much... I look forward to visiting.
This is so generous of you, Engie. Thank you. I keep thinking it's time to pick myself up and give back... but perhaps just a little bit longer...
Hello Maya :)
I read Jeanie's post and she wrote about having a splendid tea with you and left your link, So I came to add my support and hope things improve.
All the best
Sonjia.
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