Sunday, December 15, 2024

bloopers and getting back

Pics: From this morning's photoshoot. I wanted a picture of my sister and me with the Acropolis in the background for the holiday card. But our selfie skills and timing were off and we kept messing up the shots: our big heads were in the way, or our expressions were unready, or it tickled, and by the end we were just laughing so hard the pics were unusable. But looking at these pictures when I was by myself on the trip back made me smile every time. (We have matching blue silk blouses and olive-wreath headbands for "atmosphere.")

I was ready to be back home, but simultaneously SO SAD to say goodbye. Incidentally, we said goodbye FOUR times at the airport--thinking each time we might not be able to make it back to a common area in the departure lounge to hang out although our flights were within an hour of each other's. My flight was earlier, and the same ticket agent witnessed our super-clingy (cringey?) goodbye twice. I don't care. I probably won't be able to see my sister until the summer or even longer. (And I'll probably never see that ticket agent again in my life.)

Big A told me forty-five minutes into our hour's journey back home from the airport that he'd had pain on his left side all evening. I would have taken the bus back home if I'd known earlier. (It immediately made me think it sounded like a warning sign of a heart attack, but he claims it is probably just some inflammation. I trust his diagnosis though.) My sister's partner too sprouted a fever this week. I feel like our partners should be able to make it a week without us? I've kissed a sleeping Nu hello, and have been hanging out with Max and Huckie who gave me a hero's welcome home (but then, they always do no matter how long or short my absence has been) while eating the remains of the dinner and fruit salad the fam had earlier. I missed all of this...

15 comments:

Nicole said...

Awww what a wrap up for such a great week away. Although, WTF spouses, they SHOULD be able to not get sick while you're away for a week (tongue in cheek of course, hope they are both okay).

Nance said...

So many goodbyes. My family does the same thing, but not for the same reason. We just can't seem to get out the damn door.

Our partners waste away without us (or they make us pay for our good times away). I hope all is well with both. Welcome home!

StephLove said...

I only see my sister every 1-2 years (right now it's been 14 months) even though we work together and communicate (mostly about work) almost every weekday.

Lisa's Yarns said...

You should see the camera roll for the many pictures I take of my children and the number of attempts it takes to get good/ok smiles, both of them with eyes open, etc etc. It's pretty funny.

I am glad you and your sister were able to take this trip together! Goodbyes are hard, especially when you live so far apart! It makes trips like this all the more worthwhile! I'm so glad you were able to make it happen!

I travel quite often and it seems like one of the boys always gets sick when I was traveling. I was very relieved that I was not traveling when they both got strep around Thanksgiving. I am just a better care taker, probably because I grew up with a mom who was a nurse and the absolute best care taker!

NGS said...

Awww...what a lovely memory. I love this series of photos and think they are PERFECT.

J said...

Count me in with those that love those pictures, and I just LOVE that you and your sister had this vacation together! <3

Hope all is OK with your husbands and that they didn't need simultaneous appendectomies all of a sudden.

maya said...

Thanks, Nicole :)! And yes, they've made quite miraculous recoveries.

maya said...

We really didn't want to say goodbye...
(The parenthetical occurred to me too :)
Thanks for the warm welcome, Nance!

maya said...

I promise it'll just be me plugging away in Michigan from here on out, Jenny :)!

maya said...

StephLove--I did not know that about you and S! I know that you work together remotely and I thought you holidayed together frequently... (I guess I assumed based on the last year.)

maya said...

Goodbyes *are* hard even when you also want to be back home...

I wasn't really worried for our partners--I would have been worried if my kids were sick. How lovely that you have such wonderful memories of your mom's care-giving that you're passing on!

maya said...

Thanks, Engie :)!

maya said...

Thanks, Jules! Happy memories till the next time. (Husbands have recovered, all is well!)

Gillian said...

Cute

StephLove said...

Most years her family comes East for a week at the beach together or my family (or part of it) goes West, but this year it didn't work out, so I haven't seen her since October 2023, when she came East for a wedding, just a few months after North and I visited family out West.

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