I looked up from gathering my things to see the host's father talking to his daughter, pointing at me from across the room accusingly, and saying something about "that girl..." My crime? I was trying to leave without taking food home with me. So I was properly chastised and packed up with leftovers.
It was lovely to take a break and celebrate an early Diwali with the girlfriends, play with some delicious babies, eat some delicious food, and celebrate life and light today.
The thing with the food reminds me that according to legend, Alexander the Great is supposed to have said that in all his conquests, he'd never encountered hospitality as pronounced as that in India. And that always made me wonder (1) how can you tell if the people you conquered are acting hospitable or servile (2) the Greeks and Persians whom Alexander conquered before he got to the Indians also make a big deal of hospitality in my experience (to this day), so I'm not sure what he was talking about.
The title of this post is from the Sanskrit saying "the guest is (like a) God," which people like to drop into conversation.
Pic: A crop of me from a group photo today--I tried a thing with bangs, my first time since giving myself pandemic bangs early in 2020.
9 comments:
I think so many people's Love Language is food. I am forever shoving food at my kids when they leave my house, just like my own parents did before me. We are all just Extending The Hospitality--wanting them to have a piece of Home with them at their own house. Hmmm--food as umbilical cord!?
Happy Diwali!
Your bangs look great! I hope you had a good Diwali, it looks like a lot of fun.
Thanks!
Food is definitely a love language for me too, Nance. I've had to learn to stop myself from urging people to eat more as I've become more conscious of bodily autonomy...
Do you buy tupperware dedicated to sending food home with people too :)?
Thanks, Steph!
Thanks, J! I had a good time yesterday, and look forward to celebrating again in a couple of weeks... When do you celebrate?
Maya--Oh my gosh! I absolutely do!
I knew it!!!!
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