Friday, August 16, 2024

Evening in India #5

I hosted my Evening in India fundraiser for the UU today. I've been doing it since 2018 apparently, and by this point, I have a fixed menu and a pattern of prep, so I got through it like a champ. I mean, I still shopped for hours yesterday and spent hours in the kitchen today since it's a four-course meal, but it benefits a beautiful place so I feel happy about this labor of love.

(I haven't been to the UU as much as I should/could/would have lately because Scout grief floods me in moments of quiet and public crying is so... trying. But anyway.) 

The event went well. My tableful of guests got along great, there were some repeat "customers," and one of the new ones said that she'd heard so much about my offering and that it lived up to the hype in every way. Aw!

Yesterday was India's Independence Day, so I shared that. Yesterday was also the day many of my Indian sisters were lamenting that Indian women are not yet free because there has been yet another horrific rape and many women have spent the last week at protest marches. Perhaps I should not have shared that.

Pic; Après dinner games at the table...

10 comments:

Nance said...

I have read about the protests. I see them as a powerful thing and a force of hope. The world is watching!

What a terrific and generous thing to do, putting on the fundraising dinner. The menu looks delicious.

StephLove said...

I'm glad your event went well. I think it's okay to share the good and the bad.

Nicole said...

What a wonderful way to raise funds, Maya!

Gillian said...

Good for you.

NGS said...

That sounds like a fun, but important event. It's awesome that you have it down to a science so you know exactly how much to get ready and how long it will take.

maya said...

Thank you, Nance!

There was a similar moment in 2012 and is some ways, it seems like a return with very few lessons learned and progress made. A lot of defensiveness from men going "But not all men..."

maya said...

Thank you, Steph. I felt like a bit of a downer, but it just slipped out in the context of some conversation.

maya said...

Thanks, Nicole. It was an honor and a pleasure!

maya said...

Thanks, Gillian!

maya said...

Yup! I get to pretend I'm running a restaurant :).

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