1) Trip to Ikea with Nu this morning. Our plan was to blast our Indian (Hindi, Telugu, + Tamil) playlist and I would translate key parts of the chorus for Nu. But the first few songs had predominantly English lyrics. "Oh, are they saying, 'Take the world and paint it red'?" Nu asked archly of this song, for instance. So we were laughing about that, and then Nu fell asleep. On the way back Nu played me their new fave artist--a Swedish rapper called Bladee (who raps in English). The auto-synth gave me a headache, but I was a good sport because the lyrics provided ample cues to talk about mental health, relationships, drugs, and sex.
2) I fixed my bad record of not submitting any poetry this year by turning in a submission last week... and received a rejection. (And immediately began to worry that I'll NEVER place another poem EVER again.)
3) In yet another marathon gabfest this evening with the CUN(ext)T(uesday) friends, I got excellent advice as usual. I need to work on making those long overdue (by years and years) medical appointments. I feel I'm very in tune with my body and don't need preventative tests, but I'm probably just telling myself that because I find mammograms and pap smears very uncomfortable. And while vaguely on medical subjects, I have to say the woman who helped me place Nu's contact lenses order was an absolute gem--not only did she find a $150 rebate, she called me five minutes after our call to say she'd convinced my patchy eye-insurance to pay up another $120.
Pic: Three canoes on The Red Cedar from my long walk yesterday.
6 comments:
What a wise soul you are to listen to music that is blowing your head out but using it as a gateway to productive and important discussions. Smart woman, you! You'll have many non-rejections to come. Let that one go!
Take care.
Yes! Do the medical things. Your body can hide serious things! You can do thing that make you uncomfortable - they only last for so long and then you have peace of mind.
Maya, I also just made a VERY long-overdue appointment for a pap test. I agree with Engie, our bodies can hide things. Much better to get it checked out, and then we know (instead of having that thought pop into my head every once in a while, "maybe I have cervical cancer and don't know it!" Ugh, much better to get it checked!
Yes yes yes to the long overdue medical things! You can do it!
I love that you were able to turn a music-sharing experience into some healthy conversations. Is Nu receptive to that? My kid gets furious when I try to talk to her about content we consume together!
Listening to music with your kids is a perfect gateway. Well done! It's often not very easy, but I think they appreciate it so much. I still let Jared and Sam pick the music when we go out on the boat. (I've listened to SO MUCH HIP-HOP!)
No one likes to get paps and mammograms. Or colonoscopies. Think of it as a Gift You Give Your Family. After all, you want to be sure to maximize your time with them, and healthily.
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