Friday, April 25, 2025

well

I was racing like a reverse Cinderella to the sound of the bells striking the hour down the steps into the building yesterday. I would have preferred to stay home and mope, but I was due in court for the new CASA case. I was a bit slow leaving, but I got there just in the nick of time.

As it turned out it was a good thing. Although the case itself is sad, seeing all the people fighting to keep children protected was perhaps what I needed to see. 

There was a new prosecuting attorney, who, young as they seemed to be, knew how to ask the precise questions to redirect testimony back to the notable points. The doctor patiently giving expert evidence about about bones healing, made a nerdy comparison to Gothic arches. The judge always makes sure that everyone understands the legal procedure, providing summaries and outlines to help. 

There are many things wrong with our society, of course, but also so many reminders that so many are doing their best. There are such deep pockets of goodness and wellness in our society. 

Pic: Cherry blossom in full bloom. Beal Gardens w/ Lisa and Jeanie 4/22.

15 comments:

Lisa's Yarns said...

What a sad situation to be hearing about broken bones healing. My heart hurts just hearing about the case. But it’s good to hear about the people fighting for justice.

Gillian said...

Tae care.

Nance said...

It's like Mr. Rogers said, "Look for the Helpers."

StephLove said...

That's a good way to look at it. There are always people trying to help.

Jeanie said...

This is just so sad, but yes - inspiring that there are good people there too. I'd like to learn more about what you do with this sometime.

Anonymous said...

Sending a bonus Subway sandwich; when I can’t fix things, I feed people.

Thanks for standing up for the little ones!

-Steph

maya said...

Lisa, I'm sorry that detail went straight to your heart. Sadly, it's one of the many, many wrongs. I simply cannot understand how people hurt children.

maya said...

Thank you.

maya said...

Truly, Nance. I believe that's what keeps us from the abyss.

maya said...

Steph--Thankfully that has been true in my experience. I wish reports of children falling through the cracks were a true rarity.

maya said...

I'm just a volunteer, Nance. But I'm so impressed by the professionals.
The program is this: https://nationalcasagal.org/

maya said...

Thank you, Steph! (We had leftovers today, but I'm noshing on the virtual Subway now!)

J said...

These cases have to be so difficult. My husband works for the DAs office here, and some of the stuff he sees/reads is horrific. I know he needs to process for his own mental health, but sometimes I can’t bear to hear it.

maya said...

J--Honestly? I think it's more difficult to be the second-hand recipient of those stories, because there is a sense of helplessness about not being able to do anything about it.
A used to tell me horror stories from the E.R. and it gave me nightmares, and I finally had to suggest that he process with colleagues or a therapist, because I didn't feel capable or qualified.

Stephany said...

A post like this gives me hope, even when you're talking about really horrific things. But there ARE good people around us who are putting in the work. That's such a good reminder!

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