Sheltered by my residency within academia all my adult life, I’ve encountered little to no racism—the couple of times I have recognized racism* it has been from, (a) waiter at a take away—FWIW—he belonged to a minority ethnic group too (b) awful strange encounter on a bus in England—where this bloke accused me of being “a typical Indian girl” like he was outing a Nazi--FWIW--he was super disgruntled before he even started talking me up.
Still and all, this article from the Indian Telegraph, which generalizes that Indian women command extensive “sexual capital” in playing the dating game in the
Anyway, it makes me want to remind myself right now that
(a) much as the cultural fundamentalists would like to coast over the facts, Indian women have, depending on proximity, bedded the Greeks, Romans, Mongols, Persians, Africans, British, Portugese, Dutch, French, Jews, plus plenty of other ethnicities over the centuries. So if bunches of them live in the US and are going out with Americans this is hardly remarkable.
Footnotes:
* Sure, there have been many comments of the how-well-you-speak-English variety and much fussing over my mother’s beautiful sarees—but I’d slot those as compliment/lack of awareness or compliment/marginal fetishization. Full disclosure: I go ape over my mom’s sarees too :) . And before I forget—airport security has never disregarded my ethnic background; so if you’re flying with me, expect delays…
**Much as Hindu mythology gave me a great foundation in disability studies—I mean, if someone can have three legs and eight teeth and be in charge of the wealth of the gods (see Kubera link above, lazybones), someone with--say, one leg and a full set of teeth--surely must be off to a great start as a human?
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*OmiGanesha* Antinomy! And my very first set of super articulate comments :)!!
Those are tough questions you ask--i could fall asleep theorizing them without ever arriving at the big monolithic truth.
So let's first establish the fact that i, maya, dunno--
but in my head preference and fetish have separate functions...a preference for broccoli implies that it is a desirable but optional item on the dinner menu, while fetish implies broccoli is mandatory at dinner.
and i'm positive that attraction or its lack is an immediate impulse so that part's simple :). Why let politics boggle with affection? An "inter racial" relationship (if such a thing as race exists) needn't be slotted as a reparation/repetition response to imperialism. Though think of all the interesting things you could do with *that* :))
"Desi" is Hindi/Sanskrit for of/from the country (here mother country or India--though it's also used as a pan south asian term).
Is someone handing out chocolate? Yay!
maya
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